Marriage & Divorce. How Can I Get My Husband To Wear Protection?

Marriage Divorce : How Can I Get My Husband To Wear Protection

How can i get my husband to wear protection? he says he shouldnt have to waer condoms because he is married. im waiting to get a iud put in. we already have two kids a 17mth old and a 6wks old. i dont want any more or till the first is at lease starting school. he wants more and does want to wait till he is too old, he is 29yrs, im 23yrs. ~~~ kroos20 ~~~

Best Answer To Marriage Divorce Question

Very simply tell him, no raincoat no booty, and stick to it. Make it easy on him and have them in easy reach on the nightstand so that there is no excuse. No man likes wearing condoms but the alternative of an unplanned pregnancy should supercede his dislike.

All Answer To Marriage Divorce Questions

Answer 1

start taking the pill or tell him no sex if he doesnt wear one

Answer 2

If he cant wear a condom then he will have to miss out wont he......??

Answer 3

Well, maybe youre too tired to be even thinking about having sex. Yeah, Id totally be too tired for sex, with or without a condom. /467180878

Answer 4

umm its a tuff situation cos u always wud want to satisfy ur husband in bed ryt..?? n this is his idea of getting satisfied,.. do 1 thing get a copper T inserted that way you can get away wid not getting preggy..!! cos regularly having i-pill stuff can be really harmfull u c.. n u already hav 2 kids with a very less age gap.. so this way it cud work without being too forceful on ur husband.. hope it works..!!

Answer 5

Oh my force him to use them.. without you there will be no sex. No women, no party lol

Answer 6

Very simply tell him, no raincoat no booty, and stick to it. Make it easy on him and have them in easy reach on the nightstand so that there is no excuse. No man likes wearing condoms but the alternative of an unplanned pregnancy should supercede his dislike.

Answer 7

Wow - theyre young babies :) well done. I would just tell him to go jerk off somewhere until he understands that sex = babies. hahaha, i mean seriously, he had to be ready for a 3rd if he thinks he doesnt have to wear a condom now hes married - hahah - a 3rd/4th/5th/6th/7th/8th etc etc. Or just get the pill - so you dont have to worry about him. You get to control the situation.

Answer 8

you have TONNES of time what exactly is too old?? i was 39 when i had my 3rd child tell him--protection or no sex....thatll get his mind changed quick.....REAL quick Good Luck :):)

Answer 9

It sounds like you and your husband are not on the same page when it comes to how many children you want, and when you want them. Since you are the one who has to carry them and raise them, I think youre opinion counts just a little bit more. (But Im a woman, so what do I know, right?) The only way I can see that youll be able to get your husband to wear a condom is if you tell him that hes not getting any nookie unless youre wearing one. Stand firm on this one, and dont let him talk you out of it, or seduce his way out of it. No condom, no sex. If he loves you and respects your needs hell comply. I hope Ive helped. Good luck to you!

Answer 10

The other way is you start taking after piles.

Answer 11

Keep your legs closed until you get an iud or he agrees to wear a condom. You guys really sound like you have different goals, the best thing to do would really be to sit down and talk about what each of you want. I have heard that for the best possible health outcomes for both mother and child you should always wait a minimum of one year after giving birth before trying again. Pregnancy takes a lot out of the body in terms of nutrients and everything the baby needs during pregnancy. And it takes a full year for your body to recuperate and build up its strength properly in order to be able to have the healthiest pregnancy possible.

Answer 12

YOU are responsible for your body! If he doesnt cooperate -- protect yourself!!

Answer 13

Well I would agree with him in the sense that a condem makes me at least lose the feel. I dont like wearing them when w my girl. She is on the pill so we dont have to worry. I would suggest that to you. Talk to your Dr and then both of you will be happy

Answer 14

ummmmm why does he need to be the one to protect himself?? if ur the one that doesnt want any children right now go to the doc. get on the depo shot and protect urself from getting pg.. the shot works immediately and your covered for 3 months. Its alot easier then trying to force a man to do something he doesnt want to do, and its less painful then putting in and taking out an iud.

Answer 15

Your hubby is very inconsiderate. First of all, you already have 3 babies to take care of - the 2 you had and your husband being the third. Who wants or even has time for sex with 2 kids under 2 years old? If your third kid wants sex, put your foot down and have a backbone - will ya? Tell him he must - no options or input from him - wear a damn condom! Second of all, go get on the pill until your procedure is done to insure that there are no accidents. Why in the world would your hubby even want any more kids now while the other 2 are so young? Youve got plenty of time darling. Youre both young. . Just a thought. Go back to school and build yourself up. Dont be a baby-making machine. Youre young girl. Do it now b4 you regret it.

Answer 16

No glove, no love

Answer 17

I am sorry but he is too silly - he does think about himself only and not about you. Of course you should protect yourself as you are twice "a mother". You should bring up youк kids. Start taking pills but first of all go to the doctor to be sure you are taking right pills in order not to make harm for your health.