Marriage & Divorce. How Do You Determine If Your Partner Is Cheating Or If You Are Just Paranoid?

Marriage Divorce : How Do You Determine If Your Partner Is Cheating Or If You Are Just Paranoid

I mean all the typical signs are there like being out all the time, not allowing me to answer his phone, deleting messages from his phone, being secretive and just things he has said to me... ~~~ ELLE ~~~

Best Answer To Marriage Divorce Question

These arnt signs of PARANOIA... they ARE SIGN OF CHEATING! 1. Being out all the time t allow you to answer his phone 3. Deleting messages from his phone 4. Beign secretive 5. Things he says to you Most couples I know, who have nothing to hide, usually give up some or most of their privacy; when it comes to relationships. My cell phone, e-mail, myspace, facebook, and anything else, are completely free and open for my boyfriend to look at. He also does the same for me... even though nither of us need to. If your boyfriend/husband is BEING SECRETIVE with you... then he IS hiding something from you, THAT WOULD UPSET YOU. If your boyfriend/husband cant share what he is doing, because he knows it would upset you, obviously he knows what he is doing is wrong. If he is doing something wrong, that would upset you, obviously he doesnt care, because he is still hurting you AND HE KNOWS IT!!! I would never want to be with someone who hides his phone, deletes messages, and stays out all the time... I would say, if he isnt cheating, he is doing something far worse that would make you leave him, if he wasnt, he wouldnt be so secretive. Move on... he knows what he is doing is wrong, yet he still does it. OBVIOUSLY, HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU.

All Answer To Marriage Divorce Questions

Answer 1

he will be doing things that you never seen before

Answer 2

Follow him...or have a friend follow him. Go detective on his butt. Take pictures and use the proof. Go with your gut...if youre suspicious, youre probably correct in your assumptions.

Answer 3

If he didnt do this before and you havent had any arguements pertaining to you being too nosey with his phone/ email or whatever then I would say chances are he is up to something....doesnt mean he has cheated, but he might be considering it.

Answer 4

Most people cheat eventually, so if the signs are there its pretty likely. Sorry. Could be something else though - you either have to get some evidence or do some confronting. Good luck. Harriet

Answer 5

intuition tells u, its like a warning sign, lets u know something is terribbly wrong. also if he has changed drastically its a sign.

Answer 6

Thats not paranoid. If yall have a solid relationship and are really together not just living together youll not pry but youll see his email from time to time, its natural to peek at txt msgs and such. Its normal for a woman to mark her territory with the phone espeically :) I know lots of gals who work their way into thier guys voice mail message. Answering his phone is perfectly normal. He might not be cheating but if hes that secretive hes doing something you dont approve of. Dudes tend to be a bit more private than ladies. However Id go with your instincts on this one. If hes always been super private that might be his thing and if it is, its something thatll drive you up a wall anyway :) If its something new Id be really concerned. Im a dude, my gfs generally have access to my emails, voice mails, etc. Ive got nothing to hide so Im happy to let them look. When I say gfs I mean one at a time, I just go through a lot of them LOL.

Answer 7

You sit him down and talk to him about it. By this time you should be able to tell if he is trying to deceive you, some people disagree but I generally feel that if a woman feels it, its most likely true. Sometimes you just know. The phone thing especially, there is no reason to delete things if you have nothing to hide. Give him an ultimatum. He needs to respect the sanctity of your marriage or tell you he wants out.

Answer 8

These arnt signs of PARANOIA... they ARE SIGN OF CHEATING! 1. Being out all the time t allow you to answer his phone 3. Deleting messages from his phone 4. Beign secretive 5. Things he says to you Most couples I know, who have nothing to hide, usually give up some or most of their privacy; when it comes to relationships. My cell phone, e-mail, myspace, facebook, and anything else, are completely free and open for my boyfriend to look at. He also does the same for me... even though nither of us need to. If your boyfriend/husband is BEING SECRETIVE with you... then he IS hiding something from you, THAT WOULD UPSET YOU. If your boyfriend/husband cant share what he is doing, because he knows it would upset you, obviously he knows what he is doing is wrong. If he is doing something wrong, that would upset you, obviously he doesnt care, because he is still hurting you AND HE KNOWS IT!!! I would never want to be with someone who hides his phone, deletes messages, and stays out all the time... I would say, if he isnt cheating, he is doing something far worse that would make you leave him, if he wasnt, he wouldnt be so secretive. Move on... he knows what he is doing is wrong, yet he still does it. OBVIOUSLY, HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU.