Marriage & Divorce. How Do You Gain Trust In Your Relationship To Enable You To Talk Openly About Past Relationships, Sexual Needs?

Marriage Divorce : How Do You Gain Trust In Your Relationship To Enable You To Talk Openly About Past Relationships Sexual Needs

I dont think my husband trusts me to talk about these things. We have recently talked about this and it has been great but I still dont think he trusts me enough to be comfortable to do this in the future. ~~~ Sharni ~~~

Best Answer To Marriage Divorce Question

Leave the past in the past. You have skeletons in the closet like everyone. If there is ever a loss of trust in what you have now you cant redeem it. Why start trouble?

All Answer To Marriage Divorce Questions

Answer 1

Leave the past in the past. You have skeletons in the closet like everyone. If there is ever a loss of trust in what you have now you cant redeem it. Why start trouble?

Answer 2

Im on the opposite end of the spectrum here. I dont want to talk about past relationships with my husband. I just dont care and I dont feel my past relationships are interesting enough to talk about. I pretty much live in the here and now.

Answer 3

The real importance here would be how you relate to each other. What took place in the past should remain there. Why would you want to know about what he has done in the past. Discover what you have in common and expand on that. While most men might be mildly curious as to his wifes past it would only be in the context of how he measures up to what you have experienced. How you view him as a lover is of great importance to him. Not likely he wants to know about all your romances except to know that he is by far the most important to you. Dont worry about what has been, consider instead what is and begin doing something about it. We all have sexual needs and some are far more likely to talk about it than others. To open up in this area means you are vulnerable and not many men want to feel that way. The real key to sexual awareness is not in what you say but in what you do. Learn about each other and you will be just fine.

Answer 4

Why your husband wont trust you,does he not love you?why you are married then? Perhaps at your first sex,he has become disappointed and loose some interest anymore or are you just paranoid that your husband do not trust you but in reality he actually trust you are the one who do not Trust i do not know,you better talk to yourself or assess yourself more closely. You are asking "how do you gain trust in your relationship......" Why? do you have done wrong which makes your husband looses his trust on you?or are kinda narrow-minded wife that is why your husband wont trust you on that? To gain trust is to make him satisfy and secure on you satisfy him then?